| Understanding Your
Feelings When you meet
someone special you want to share your
first kiss with, you may feel many
different emotions. You are excited
about becoming intimate with the person
but so scared the person will know you
don't know how to kiss. These feelings
are completely normal and understandable
since you really have never had a
romantic kiss with someone before. You
probably have seen many people do it
before and wonder if it is as easy as it
looks -- it is!
Learning How to Kiss
One of the best ways to master the
art of kissing is by doing it. After
seeing so many people do it on
television, movies, or right in front of
you, you probably have a good idea what
to do. When you get ready to have this
intimate experience, start by clearing
your mind and think about how much you
care for the person. When you and your
partner are close to each other such as
cuddling on a couch watching a movie or
hugging, look into your boyfriend or
girlfriend's eyes and lean in. At this
point, your boyfriend or girlfriend
probably knows what is about to happen
and may lean in as well. Close your
eyes, tilt your head to the side so your
nose does not collide with your
boyfriend or girlfriend's nose and
pucker your lips. You can then kiss your
mate's lips slowly with some pressured.
You don't want to put too much pressure
on your mate's lips or it won't be fun
for you or your mate.
How long you do it for depends on how
comfortable you and your partner feel in
the moment. Sometimes you will kiss for
only a few seconds and other times it
may go on for a few minutes. If you want
to stop kissing, pull your head away
slowly. Don't jerk your head too quickly
or your partner may think something is
wrong.
Sites on Types of
Kisses
If you search online for different
types of kisses, you will find there is
a lot of information out there. Here are
some sites with tips on how to impress
your guy or girl next time you are both
together.
This site has 36 different types for
you to try. Each one has an explanation
on how to do it.
This website has eight web pages of
different types also with explanations.
Here is another list with some of the
same from the above websites but also
some unique ones.
You will find a long list with
interesting ideas.
This is a great webpage on what not
to do when kissing your boyfriend or
girlfriend.
Becoming a Good Kisser
One of the biggest preventers of
becoming a good kisser is thinking too
much about it. Kissing is supposed to be
pleasurable and intimate. Let yourself
feel the moment and forget about whether
the kiss will be perfect. The truth is
the kiss will be as special as your
relationship is with the person you are
kissing.
Becoming a good kisser is not
something you can achieve in a short
time. You have to kiss someone many
times in many different ways to master
the art of kissing. However, the more
you do it the better you will become.
You will find this will not be a problem
because your boyfriend or girlfriend
will probably love to engage in this
activity with you often. Try out some of
the kissing techniques from the above
websites and make sure to read what not
to do at Think Quest. Before you know
it, you will be a pro at kissing your
boyfriend or girlfriend.
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